Thursday, October 14, 2010

Hannah

Dear Hannah,
I can't believe you will be 15 next week. Where did the time go? It is hard for me to find the words to tell you how much I love you. You have grown into such a lovely, fantastic, incredible, spiritual girl. You amaze me every day. I worry about you and then you do something that just blows me away. Then I stop worrying about you for a day or two.
I love watching you as you discover your talents and interests. I love watching how your mind works and how things start falling into place for you. I love listening to you talk about the things you are learning and what it means to you. I know that you have the ability to do great things in this life.
I love you for your excellent example. I love watching you strive to do what is right in spite of what your friends and others are doing around you. I think that you are an amazing daughter of God and I want you to remember that he loves you, always.
Hannah, you have a fantastic sense of humor. Your laugh is contagious. I love how you can bring us all together and make us all laugh. I love how you can make Luke laugh so hard he can't breathe. I love the imaginative things you come up with!!
I love how you are so good with kids. I love how they just love you so much. I think they know what a good, kind girl you are and they are drawn to that. I love how creative you are and how you are not afraid to try many different kinds of outlets to express that side of you.
I know you will think this is totally embarrassing...
I just want to make sure that you know how great I think you are and how much I love you. What would I do without you? You are a part of why my life is so great. I love plotting and planning adventures with you! You are so brave and I admire that quality in you! Even though you like to act tough, I know the tender side of you. Just so you know, it is ok to let it show sometimes.
Hannah, I feel blessed to have you as my daughter. I am thankful for you and I love you so much! Thank you for being such a fantastic daughter.

-Mom

























Wednesday, July 21, 2010

4th of July...

Here are some pictures we took when we went to Bridal Veil Falls over the weekend for the 4th. It was pretty fun!




Hannah and Lizzie at the falls.

This is as far as Luke was comfortable going, he got pretty far!






We have another picture like this from years ago.

Goofy pictures on the rock. I wish they weren't blurry because they are some of my favorites!


Sunday, May 9, 2010

Happy Mother's Day!!

To the wonderful women who have shaped our lives! We Love you dearly!


Saturday, May 8, 2010

My Essay.....

This is the essay I wrote for my first assignment in my Communication and Media Class. I am really pleased with how it all came together so I thought I would share with you the brilliant mind you get to associate with! Just kidding about the brilliant mind. I really just think I wrote a fantastic essay.... it's ok if you don't like it.



For many years my husband worked in advertising. He was a graphic artist and designed many ads for companies trying to make a particular product look so appealing people couldn’t resist buying it. I came across an article entitled, Shadows in the Cave by Kirk Souder. In this article he uses Plato’s allegory of the cave in relation to branding in the advertising world. I find the connections he made interesting on different levels.

The first point he makes is the only reality the man chained to the wall knows is the shadows. The man doesn’t know they are shadows, he believes them to be real. But when this man turns around, he finds out that the shadows aren’t real, the objects casting the shadows are real. Mr. Souder then makes the connection to the objects that surround us in our lives and those objects are shadows and the ideas behind creating these objects are where the truth is. The actual object is an “imperfect manifestation of that truth. Objects are transient but the idea of an objet is not. The idea is eternal.”(Souder, 2000, 15). This idea spoke to me on a very basic level. Although I can apply it to many areas in my life one came to mind almost instantly. My husband and I have spent years working on our yard. We started with an idea and are trying to make that idea a reality. Somehow, though the end result is satisfying, it always falls short of the original idea.

Secondly, Mr. Souder discusses branding is a special kind of idea it is an ideal. “A brand is an ideal that manifests itself as an object.” (Souder, 2000, 15). He goes on to talk about different brands that have been around for a number years. Even though the actual object may not stand the test of time the ideal of the brand will. This reminds me of a conversation my husband and I had when he received an alphabet poster where the alphabet was taken from particular brands of products. For instance the O was from Oreo and the M was from McDonald’s. We talked about how we could identify each letter easily and so could our children. We also discussed the idea that certain products become so popular in our culture that we call all products that are similar by that name. Like MP3 players are called ipods. If I started talking about Kleenex you would know I was talking about tissues or if I mentioned a Happy Meal you would know I was talking about a kids meal at a fast food chain. It is in these ways that the brand becomes the ideal in our minds. Think about the symbols we see that conveys the ideal of status or success. Really it could be anything from wearing specific designer clothes to driving an expensive car.

The last point that Mr. Souder makes is that a great brand makes us think that it holds ideals that we, as humans do. That this brand, whatever it may be, is not a shadow but has a soul, “A soul trying with every new manifestation to get closer to it’s ideal—the opening of the cave.” (Souder, 2000, 15). This is where I disagree with Mr. Souder. As wonderful and life changing as some products are, they are still objects. They have no soul and if they were no longer around we would find a way to move on. I think here in America we have placed to great an emphasis on material goods that we have lost sight of the bigger picture. Would we truly be happier more fulfilled people if we had all the best products at our fingertips? I don’t think personifying objects is creating better lives for any of us. I buy into advertising just as much as anyone else. That is the point isn’t it? We are made to think that a certain brand is going to help us reach an ideal that seems important, whether that means driving the coolest car, being the most beautiful, thinnest, smartest person a brand can make us.

My first impressions are much different than the conclusions I have come to when I first read Plato’s cave allegory, as well as this article. I believe it all comes down to what our reality is. Are we the man chained to the wall or are we the person carrying the objects making the shadows? What is the most important thing in our reality? Is our reality based on the superficial or does it go deeper than that? What ideal are we striving to reach? Will we let someone else determine what ideal we should be reaching for? In the end I believe there are and will be more questions than any of us have answers for. The point is we continually search for those answers, which will have the most meaning and bring us closer to the ideal we want to reach.


References

Souder, K. (2000). Shadows in the Cave. Adweek New England Edition, 37(43), 15. Retrieved from Business Source Complete database.

http://www.allbusiness.com/marketing-advertising/4188167-1.html

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Hannah's Trip to California






Hannah went to California with the RJHS Ochestra and Band. Here are the pictures she took. I have no explanation you will have to ask her.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Boys...

Aren't the men in my family HANDSOME?!?!?! This was taken just before they went to the General Priesthood meeting. It was Luke's first.


Monday, April 26, 2010

The yard....

Do you remember what my yard looked like before? Or maybe you remember what we started out with? So now I have finally finished 2 of the flower beds! It was a lot of work and even if it doesn't look like there are plants there are. We are just too cheap to buy big plants!


This picture shows the back of the house. There are 3 hostas planted there and we have started seeds for a TON of plants so these beds are going to be full! Not to mention when you live next to an empty lot of weeds having any kind of landscaping looks fabulous! (FYI)



We also found a way to fill our planter boxes cheaper than we thought. After the lady at Allred's told us not to get any topsoil from around here because it was TOXIC! So now we are trying to decide what to plant here.....
Oh yeah we also planted 3 concord grape vines along this fence! (Thank you Lowe's for having a terrific price on bare root plants!)



That is the 2nd lupine we have planted. The first one Wade murdered. Yes murdered!! This one I saved in the nick of time by transplanting it into a nice shady spot behind the house. Notice the bark and no weeds! I did all by myself. Thanks to the Frandsens and the free bark they gave me! Can you get addicted to barking your flower beds?

Compare the raspberry plant from last year to this one! Wade and I found a compromise. (I am just as surprised as you!) Now the raspberry plant won't attack upon entering the backyard! (I know I need to clean out this part. If Wade would stop reseeding the grass it would be a lot easier!)

This is the area by the garage. What you can't see are 3 hydrangea trees (I hope they survive in a zone 5 winter!) and 2 hosta plants. Again notice the bark and lack of weeds! This I did by myself as well!
If you will also notice Wade's grass. Isn't it so green? That is what happens when you have OCD and plant your own grass!

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Luke's Spring Program

ConAmore had it's Spring Program last week. It is so fun to go and watch. Luke was asked to lead the Pledge of Allegiance. He did such a great job! His class has been studying the Presidents of the United States this year. He has learned so much! He can give lots and lots of information even if he can't always remember which president it was. So his class shared what they have learned so far. His class also sang a song with the whole school. The kids at this school are so wonderful. Every time I go to one of their programs I just want to cry during the whole thing. They are fantastic!

Luke waiting to share about his president.

Luke singing with his class... the boy loves to sing. I love to hear him singing to himself at home.

Getting ready to lead the Pledge.


Luke sharing information about President Taylor. His teacher Ms. Shelly is helping him.

Monday, February 8, 2010

The Wait is Over.....


Have you missed me? I think the problem is that I took a small break from being so busy this summer and then school started. Then the holidays came and birthdays and then I went back to college to get my Special Ed teaching degree. Now my life is a whole different kind of busy! Well don't worry I won't neglect you any more. Doesn't that make your Monday better?